Your mind is a powerful thing. If you let yourself to be in a positive state of mind, your attitude will follow. Let’s discuss STEPS TO GAIN POSITIVE ATTITUDE with a short story.
There was a man who used to earn money by selling different colors of balloons daily. Whenever his sale used to go down, he leaves some balloon in the sky and children used to get excited after seeing that balloon in the sky and they immediately used to visit that man to buy one such balloon. Because of which his sale used to grow yet again. One day a boy asked him that if he will leave a BLACK color balloon in the sky, will it flew? That man smiled and said, “ it’s not the color of the balloon but it is what’s inside that makes it go up“. These same principles are applied to our life too. Our ability, attitude and motivation always help us to move ahead in life.
Focus on an ocean of positives, not a puddle of negatives.
Ability teaches us that How We DO. Motivation teaches us that Why We Do. but it’s our Attitude that decides how Well We DO. YOUR ATTITUDE CONTRIBUTES TO SUCCESS. We all know the power of POSITIVE THINKING but very few people understand the power of NEGATIVE THINKING. Yes… both things are powerful but in the opposite way. Positive thinking encourages an individual to touch new heights of success, on the other hand, Negative thinking is the reason behind self-destruction. Our attitude decides how we face the problem. For example for positive thinking people, the problem is like a big opportunity for them whereas, for negative thinking people, the problem is like a big obstacle for them. Every problem brings an opportunity along with it.
There are several advantages of Positive Attitude like…you get a meaning for your life. You start to inspire yourself and others also, there is an increase in business and profit. You solve several issues by taking a positive decision. In short, it reduces stress and improves quality of life. On the other side, there are many consequences of a negative attitude. Negative thinking people live a purposeless life. They are not satisfied with anything, whether it is friendship, job, marriage or relationship. Moreover, the level of frustration, rudeness, and stress increase continuously in their life. Many times they want to remove such a thing from their life but their negative attitude resists them from doing so. Sometimes we become so comfortable with our negativity that we don’t change despite knowing that its good for us.
TWO MAIN STEPS TO GAIN POSITIVE ATTITUDE
CHANGE FOCUS, LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE
Many times people find that thing that they are looking for. That’s why we should search positive instead of negative in others ANDREW CARNEGIE was the richest man in the USA and one of the largest steel manufacturers in the world having a net worth of 310 billion dollars. Once a reporter asked him how he deals with people? Andrew said that dealing with people is like sorting out gold. We have to separate dust and mud while searching for gold. Similarly, while searching for the positive thing in a person, first we have to avoid negative things about that person. So from now try to change focus and look for the positive in everyone.
MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW
I have procrastinated many things in life which I regret today. Also, Procrastination leads to a negative attitude which results in delay and regret. Some people procrastinate by saying that they are analyzing or getting ready for the future but even after six months, they are still analyzing or getting ready. if you want to develop a positive attitude then stop procrastination and make a habit of doing it now.
Our life is a reflection of our Attitude. Without even noticing it, it can be easy to become negative and cynical towards the world as we are continuously exposed to tragedy and injustice in the media and as we experience our own heartache and distress.
Negative Attitude not only prevents you from totally enjoying your life, but it can also have a significant impact on your environment. The energy someone brings with them is contagious. One of the most effective things you can offer your family, organization or community is your positive attitude.
So to conclude… WINNING is like an event but being a winner is a spirit. DEVELOPE “YES YOU CAN” spirit in yourself by developing a positive attitude. Always remember one thing Winners don’t do different things..they do things differently .”DARE TO DREAM…!!!”